....that would result in every single icon needing to be added.
First, I certainly respect your opinions, decisions and authority on this forum. So with respect, I'm not sure it would require "every single icon". Even it if did, I'm not so sure that would be a bad thing.
But what is it that Grobe has suggested? Is that some kind of....I don't know....."other" button, which would allow any image to be used as a smiley? Oh, or all the code he posted has allowed his image to be displayed, correct? (new lesson for me) But that blue ? button, would it refer to another set of smiley/emoticons? And that's the set that would potentially include "every single icon"?
I honestly don't mind giving instructions/suggestions using the menu items. Especially since I can't remember all the keyboard shortcuts. But there are several buttons which have no menu equivalent. In those cases, it would be really nice to have a smiley/emoticon (11th button from the left, 3rd button from the right, etc. just feels like a primitive way to communicate). Maybe it would not seem like such a huge task, if it were limited to buttons which have no menu item?
OR if you have no objection to delegating responsibility, I certainly could find the time to upload any new button icon/smiley images. You wouldn't have to give me any permanent admin status -- just a temporary password or something. I don't know that I could create all the little images, but again, I suspect others might volunteer.
Well anyway, just to make you the offer. I think it would make for a better and more efficient forum, and I would volunteer to do the work

You know, it really should work to use the Img tags though, assuming all the button icons are no bigger than typical smiley/emoticons. Here's what I could do, and possibly with some help from others, is to create an ImageShack account where I would upload all the button icons. Then I would just share the IS log-in info, and anyone who needs special buttons can go to that account and get the URL, then use Img tags to insert into a message.
Any support or comments appreciated (on the IS idea)
