This is not so much a 'how do I do a certain effect' question, as it is just a basic 'how do I work with Inkscape gradients in general' question. Since I'm not a graphics professional or artist, things that might be intuitive for them, are not for me. So there are a few things that I have not been able to figure out by trial and error.
I have learned how to apply a gradient to an object, and that a Stop seems to be the endpoint of a segment within a gradient...at least I'm pretty sure that's what it is

Intuitive to me would be that these 1st 2 stops somehow define the gradient, because they cannot be deleted. More Stops can be added, but these 2 cannot be deleted. This would lead me automatically to suspect that one stop defines one end of the gradient, and the other defines the other end. But their number names are very close to the gradient name. Say for example the gradient is called #1234, one stop would be 1236 and the other 1238. Since in my playing around with Inkscape gradients, I've seen them named anywhere between 1000 and 9999, it seems sort of unlikely that a gradient which starts with a fully opaque color, ending fully transparent could be defined by a range of only 4. Here I'm assuming that the sequence of numbers is of some importance. Because again, intuitively, why would the gradients be named by numbers, if the sequence is not important? If the gradients were named with 6 numbers, that would really make sense!! (because of the html color naming system) But, oh well....

So my 1st questions:
-- Why is not the 1st stop the same name/number as the gradient itself?
-- What do the 2 undeletable stops' numbers represent, besides just their name?
The next problem I've come up against, is how exactly to edit the gradient. Apparently one selects gradients and stops which one wants to edit, by clicking on their number/names, rather than with the object, gradient, path, shape, etc. selectors. Because I can have a particular gradient selected (highlighted), all by itself, but editing the stops actually edits a different gradient, one that is not selected at all, and could even be in an entirely different document!. Is that how it's supposed to be?
Along the same theme, it looks to me like one cannot change the gradient's base color, only its stops. So if I have a gradient that goes from opaque blue to fully transparent, then I change my mind, and I want it to start with red and end with blue, there's no way to get rid of the blue part which seems to be represented by the difference between the gradient's name and 1st stop. The only way to get rid of that blue part is to create an entirely new gradient, with different number/names. Have I got that right?
Once I've finally got a gradient exactly how I want it, is there any way to save it, to use it later? Because getting back to intuition, if I saved (or remembered) the gradient's number name from some other document, and I wanted to use it again....well 1st, where would I enterthe number/name, to call up the gradient? Or from where do I select the number/name, in order to use it again -- the previous document where I used it before? Would I simply open that other document and copy the gradient? Well, no, I tried that, but when I needed to tweak the gradient a little for the new doc, it tweaked the original one too, even though I wasn't even working on that doc. (Hhhm, I wonder if it would tweak the original one if the original doc was actually closed??? Hhhhm...)
So:
-- Is it possible to save a gradient for later use? If so, how?
-- If not, how does one begin to recreate a gradient?
Plus, with this number/name system there can only be 8999 possible gradients, yet clearly there are....well, probably an infinite number of potential gradients in the real world. Or, is a gradient named #1234, without any modification, always the same gradient?
I guess this is kind of leading into some questions I have about using colors in Inkscape, so I'll stop here, for now. (But the eyedropper tool in Inkscape sure does not work the way it does in other graphics programs

Thanks for you help.
All best.