At IF, it's only the 1st two messages of new members, which have to be approved. But it's often hard (for me) to determine if someone was planning to post spam, with just 2 messages to judge by. Those human spammers can be VERY clever! So I've set it at 5 here. So after your 1st 5 messages are approved, then they will no longer have to be approved, and your messages will post immediately.
However, if this forum's security is as good as advertised, I might be able to drop approvals completely, and let even new members' messages post immediately.
I was just looking to see if there might be some way I can let people that I already know bypass that, but I don't think there is. At least not that I've found yet. While I've had a couple of months to study the forum's controls (and you know how complex SMF can be) as a first time admin, there will still probably be a learning process